“Be with her because you actually want to be with her, because you actually see a potential future with her, not because you are used to being with her, not because you’re scared of the thought that being without them will ruin you. The point of being in a relationship is to enjoy each others company, is to be there to support each other when they need it most. No one person, defines who you are. They only compliment you.”
—Marvin King
September 2011
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“This is the problem with dealing with someone who is actually a good listener. They don’t jump in on your sentences, saving you from actually finishing them, or talk over you, allowing what you do manage to get out to be lost or altered in transit. Instead, they wait, so you have to keep going.”
—Just Listen by Sarah Dessen
“You want to know what happiness is? It’s waking up in the middle of the night for no reason, shifting under the blankets and feeling the heat of the person next to you. You turn around and see them in their most peaceful, innocent, and vulnerable state. They breathe as though the weight of the world lays on anyone’s shoulder but their own. You smile, kiss their face in the most gentle manner so as not to wake them. You turn back around and an involuntary grin forms on your own face. You feel an arm wrap around your waist, and you know it doesn’t get any better than this.”
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Arguing.
It happens in EVERY relationship. But NEVER walk away from the person in a middle of a fight. It will just make the relationship worse and make the other person think that they aren’t worth fighting for. If they ever walk away from you… Pull them in your arms, and kiss them. Just like the movies <3 And remember: When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long.
“Too many people get caught up in what could be instead of appreciating what is. Don`t fall into that trap. Appreciate what you have and who you have, cause the future can take it all away from you.”
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“Don’t do anything by half. If you love someone, love them with all your soul. When you go to work, work your ass off. When you hate someone, hate them until it hurts.”
—Henry Rollins
